(If you do wind up dating someone who isn't stacked, don't hide your kink from him-hell, you could wind up stumbling over a lovely, non-stacked guy who shares your kink, THINMAN, and the two of you can worship muscle guys as a team.)Īnd with all that said, THINMAN, and, um, just having just reread your letter, it doesn't sound like you're having any trouble attracting the kind of guys you're into. Muscle dudes who get off on having their muscles worshiped respond to your messages and they hook up with you and plenty of them are open to dating you.